We’ve all been there—overthinking someone’s opinion, replaying conversations, wondering what we did wrong. But this quote is a powerful reminder to pause and flip the question:
“Before you ask yourself why someone doesn’t like you, ask yourself if you even give a sht.”*
It’s not just bold—it’s freedom. The kind of mindset that reclaims your time, energy, and self-worth.
The Truth About Seeking Approval
Too often, we give our power away by caring too much about how others see us. We try to impress, fit in, or be liked—sometimes by people who don’t even know our full story. But here’s the truth: not everyone will like you—and that’s okay.
The real question is: Do you like them?
Do they align with your values, energy, or goals? Or are you just wired to seek approval from everyone—even those who don't matter?
Protecting Your Energy
This quote invites us to shift our perspective. Instead of getting stuck in self-doubt, we learn to ask:
Do their opinions reflect who I really am? Are they worth my mental space?Would their approval change anything important?
Often, the answer is no.
And that’s when the most powerful thing happens—you stop chasing validation and start owning your space.
Self-Worth Comes From Within
When you know your worth, someone’s dislike doesn't hit the same. You stop shrinking yourself to please others. You stop explaining your choices to people who were never really listening. Instead, you stand tall in your truth—unapologetic, bold, and real.
The world doesn’t need a watered-down version of you to make others comfortable. It needs your raw honesty, your quiet confidence, and your refusal to beg for space at tables you’ve outgrown.Do I even give a sht?*
If the answer is no—walk away with peace in your heart and your head held high.